I'm Too Sexy for Your Script   
By: Jennifer Allan

Let's talk about scripts. I think they have a place in the human experience - we all use scripts every day, in both our personal and business lives. “Hi, how are you?” is a script, as is “Hi, this is Jennifer Allan with RE/MAX City Horizons; I’d like to set a showing…” I use essentially the same script every time I go through a purchase contract with a buyer or a listing agreement with a seller. When I finish up a day of showings, I always say “So, that’s our show for today - how did we do?”

 If we didn’t use the same words over and over again when performing essentially the same task or activity, our brains might fill up and explode from overwork!

 But here’s where I don’t like scripts… during the prospecting process. Effectively prospecting to someone is a delicate balancing act between subjecting someone to an unwanted sales pitch and inspiring them to actually care about whatever it is you’re selling. And I think we can all agree that most salespeople err toward the side of the aggressive pitch (not you or me, of course, but everyone else).

 There are probably a gazillion sales scripts out there for your consideration. Most are pretty awful, especially in the hands of an amateur, but occasionally I’ll run into one that almost sounds sincere.

 Almost.

 Lately I’ve been prospected to by some pretty slick operators. I almost missed the fact that the sales pitches were well-rehearsed scripts.

 Almost.

 But once I realized I’d been scripted to, I was annoyed and even a little bit hurt. I thought I was special. I thought that my appointment with this sales dude or dudette was the highlight of his or her day. I thought that this person really cared whether or not he or she earned my trust and my business. But no, I was just another prospect, just another sales call on the road to the next prospect. I was a number. I don’t like being a number. And that’s how being scripted to makes me feel.

 Wanna sell me something? Leave the scripts and the sales pitch at home. Make me care about you because you care about me. Open up. Be YOU. Make me feel special. There might be a sale in it for ya!

Jennifer Allan is a real estate broker, published author, trainer and speaker. Jennifer enjoyed a successful real estate business in Denver, Colorado without relying on cheesy sales-pitches, aggressive closing techniques or making a nuisance out of herself among her social network. She assures like-minded real estate agents that they can succeed without changing who they are or becoming someone they don't recognize.

You can learn more about Jennifer's books and philosophies at www.SellwithSoul.com.

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